Saturday, April 28, 2007

Home

What is home? I mean really dictionary.com claims that home is:
–noun
1.a house, apartment, or other shelter that is the usual residence of a person, family, or household.
2.the place in which one's domestic affections are centered.
3.an institution for the homeless, sick, etc.: a nursing home.
4.the dwelling place or retreat of an animal.
5.the place or region where something is native or most common.
6.any place of residence or refuge: a heavenly home.
7.a person's native place or own country.
8.(in games) the destination or goal.
9.a principal base of operations or activities: The new stadium will be the home of the local football team.
10.Baseball. home plate.
11.Lacrosse. one of three attack positions nearest the opposing goal.
–adjective
12.of, pertaining to, or connected with one's home or country; domestic: home products.
13.principal or main: the corporation's home office.
14.reaching the mark aimed at: a home thrust.
15.Sports. played in a ball park, arena, or the like, that is or is assumed to be the center of operations of a team: The pitcher didn't lose a single home game all season. Compare away (def. 11).
–adverb
16.to, toward, or at home: to go home.
17.deep; to the heart: The truth of the accusation struck home.
18.to the mark or point aimed at: He drove the point home.
19.Nautical.
a.into the position desired; perfectly or to the greatest possible extent: sails sheeted home.
b.in the proper, stowed position: The anchor is home.
c.toward its vessel: to bring the anchor home.
–verb (used without object)
20.to go or return home.
21.(of guided missiles, aircraft, etc.) to proceed, esp. under control of an automatic aiming mechanism, toward a specified target, as a plane, missile, or location (often fol. by in on): The missile homed in on the target.
22.to navigate toward a point by means of coordinates other than those given by altitudes.
23.to have a home where specified; reside.
–verb (used with object)
24.to bring or send home.
25.to provide with a home.
26.to direct, esp. under control of an automatic aiming device, toward an airport, target, etc.
But none of these 26, yes twenty-six, definitions really gather the meaning of home, do they?
I've always felt that home is a very personal place. It's the place where you feel at rest physically, mentally, spiritual, and socially. A place where this relaxation is not even forced, but just happens. You feel your heart relax, as if beating is no longer work. This is one of the things I really loved about Garden State. Zach Braff addressed the idea of home and family. It's not always going to be where your mothers is, and your blood relatives aren't necessarily your family. "You know that point in your life when you realize that the house that you grew up in isn't really your home anymore? All of the sudden even though you have some place where you can put your stuff that idea of home is gone ... it just sort of happens one day it's just gone. And you can never get it back. It's like you get homesick for a place that doesn't exist. I mean it's like this rite of passage, you know. You won't have this feeling again until you create a new idea of home for yourself, you know, for your kids, for the family you start, it's like a cycle or something. I miss the idea of it. Maybe that's all family really is. A group of people who miss the same imaginary place."

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